While delaying marriage has advantages -- a
lower divorce rate, higher income for women and fewer and less intense
arguments between spouses -- studies show there also may be benefits to tying
the knot before age 30. However, there is such a thing as marrying too young.
Research shows that marriages beginning when a woman is 18 are twice as likely
to end in divorce as those beginning when she is 22.
Below are
five reasons to get married in your 20s.
1. It could make you happier. The
highest percentage of people ages 20 to 28 who consider themselves "highly
satisfied" with their lives are married, as opposed to single or
cohabiting. What's more, the largest number of women who described their
marriage as "very happy" tied the knot when they were 24 to 26. A
2010 study found that "the greatest indicated likelihood of being in an
intact marriage of the highest quality is among those who married at ages
22–25."
2. You'll make more money (at least if
you're a man). An analysis revealed that among men in their mid-30s, those who
married in their 20s had the highest levels of personal income. Economists have
found, in general, that married men earn more than single men -- even when you
control for other factors like age and education.
3. You'll have more séx. Couples who
marry in their 20s tend to have more frequent séx than those who marry later.
Researchers say that "a four year increase in age at marriage is
associated with a couple having séx about one time less per month." What's
more, married people as a whole have more séx than their single counterparts.
4. You'll drink less alcohol. A 2012
study published in the Journal of Health and Social Behavior found that married
and engaged young adults reported lower frequency of drunkenness than those who
are not in a serious romantic relationship. Laying off alcohol has many health
benefits, including weight loss, better sleep, better skin and a reduced risk
of some cancers.
5. There's nothing to be gained from waiting --
if you think you're ready. We certainly aren't advocating a rush to the altar,
but if you feel like you're prepared for that next step, go for it. Research
says there's no advantage to delaying marriage just for the sake of delaying
it. A 25-year-old person who meets an excellent marriage prospect would be
ill-advised to pass up that opportunity only because he/she feels not yet at
the ideal age for marriage. Furthermore, delaying marriage beyond the
mid-twenties will lead to the loss during a portion of young adulthood of any
emotional and health benefits that a good marriage would bring.

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